I had a friend who was newly married but things were not going like she imagined. She asked her new husband, “We have a good marriage but do you want a great marriage?” Asking this question allowed them to discuss what they needed to create the kind of marriage they both wanted. You don’t have to be newly married to ask, “Can we make our relationship better?” In fact, this would be a good check-in question to use throughout your partnership and especially at inflection points in your life.